YES, Go For it When It Feels Right and Here's Why
There is so much talk about being “connected” and most often about creating connection with other people. But isn’t there a step before that? Wouldn’t the first step be to create a “connection” FIRST to who you are?
Sometimes an “existential question” like “who are you” gets people a bit confused or somehow they think that question is too “big” or unanswerable. So let’s approach this step by step. Take an average day of yours and while watching the video (or listening to the podcast) follow along with the CONNECTION FORMULA.
The goal of the 4 videos (also in podcast format) in the ENERGY Series is for you to be able to up your energy levels and maintain high energy simply by remembering the various elements that make up the FUN FORMULAS. As you know, you can intrinsically motivate yourself by how you feel and think about you and your life.
I talk about LIFE PURPOSE also in this video (podcast) as being a vital part of CONNECTION with who you are and more so with WHY YOU ARE HERE. That is also an “existential question”.
So here is the FUN FORMULA: CONNECTION = INTENSITY X DURATION.
Rate how connected you feel now to yourself and to your life purpose from 1 - 100. Then do the formula: How Intense is the feeling throughout the day - rate it from 1 - 10. How long has this intensity been around and rate it from 1 - 10.
When you read or hear people saying “your purpose is what gets you out of bed in the morning” this is what they mean. These people have an INTENSE ENERGY CONNECTION to what they are here to do and it keeps feeling strong in DURATION and never fades!
THE CONNECTION can be something in the moment that you feel pulled to doing (it is more an energy pull and not a mental decision) as well as a “calling” about your overall life mission that you have felt for many years. When the pull and call are intense and last a long time then for sure you are on the right path because the connection FEELS SO RIGHT and SO GOOD inside of you!
Now that I have shared one of my stories, think about your life and WHEN YOU FELT SOMETHING WAS SO RIGHT! You can probably remember more than one time.
And you can probably remember a time you DID the thing that felt right and other times when you DID NOT do what felt right. Many of my male executive clients are “intuitive” business men (similar to Richard Branson) and so often they make their strategic decisions based on a sensation, a flash, a vision or a voice. They are not always open with their team members about this “gift” so they pretend to use the statistics provided by their “market researchers”.
Painfully and regretfully, they admit that when they DID NOT follow their intuition, DID NOT ACT on what they felt was the right-best-greatest thing to do in that moment, is when they failed.
How you know when things are right is because the INTENSITY and the DURATION are high. Or the intensity is so overwhelming that it overrides the need to last long and you spring into fast action taking.
Remember that your CONNECTION is yours! To keep it strong you need CLARITY about who you are. It is hard to communicate and share your connection and intensity with lots of people because they can’t feel it how you can.
So you also need CONFIDENCE to act on the energy of connection to move it from just an energy state into physical manifestation. And you need the confidence to continue despite what others around you might think and feel. Be true to your connection, get the clarity, feel confident and take action today.
When you need support, reach out to me. My clients say I know them better than they know themselves which is why they get life changing results fast.
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